So, you got that invitation in the mail that says “Black-Tie Dress Code” and now you’re freaking out because you’ve been in sweats all year! What does a black tie event mean exactly, and what is the black-tie dress code?
I recently spoke to Christine Odin, a personal stylist, who is an expert in event dressing, and she shared some important information that will calm your nerves. Lucky for you, I’m breaking down the black-tie formal dress code below!
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What is a Black-Tie Event Anyway?
We’ve all heard about it and it sounds mysterious. But chances are you may have already been to at least one once in your life and may not even realize it. A black-tie is a formal celebration such as a black tie wedding.
It’s usually an elaborate wedding in a very fancy catered ballroom. It could be a prestigious corporate holiday party or award ceremony as well. Either way, it sounds fancy and intimidating…I know.
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What is the Black-Tie Dress Code?
The dress code for a black-tie event is formal. This means that you are in your Sunday best. Women usually wear long floor-length evening gowns.
In this modern age, however, you can get wear “creative black tie” and choose formal dressy separates such as a jumpsuit or wide-leg pants with a dressy top. I also love a high-low hemline.
If you are attending with a gentleman, a dinner jacket, bow tie, and white shirt is necessary. The traditional black tie dress code is elegant and sophisticated.
Tips for Attire Shopping for a Black-Tie Event
Christine Odin of PS Personal Styling, who specializes in event dressing, knows a thing or two about the black-tie dress code. Here is her advice:
Christine also recommends ensuring that your purchase is in line with your personal style, body type, and personal coloring. She says…
“Don’t buy that bright red dress that you find on the rack if you know that the hue of red is not flattering on you”. She also recommends working with a stylist as they have relationships with retailers and can get inside info on stock and new incoming styles.
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Black-Tie Accessories
As a stylist myself, I know the importance of accessories. They can make or break an outfit. You should elevate your black tie attire with luxurious-looking accessories.
A simple floor-length ball gown dress, for example, can be elevated by wearing it with a beaded clutch and heels. Add a pair of chandelier earrings and a cocktail ring, and you are all set! On the other hand, if your outfit speaks for itself, then “less is more” A simple but stunning wrist watch is all you might need. This crystal bezel watch would be stunning for a black tie dress code event.
Etiquette and Black-Tie
It goes without saying that if you are well-dressed, you need to be well-groomed and well-behaved. Most women wear updos or get their hair done neatly.
The black-tie dress code also includes a behavior code (ex, not getting wasted or dancing with a drink in hand on the dancefloor). After all, you don’t want to spill your drink and ruin your beautiful outfit!
What Not To Wear To A Black-Tie Events
Ok, we are going there for those of you who need extra clarification. This is not a drill! Please don’t break the black-tie dress code. Here are some items that you should not wear to a black tie event:
- Dresses that are too short and too revealing
- Denim
- Sneakers or Casual Shoes
- Leather
- Leggings
Mastering the Black-Tie Dress Code
Now that you’ve cracked the black -tie dress code, you can be confident in shopping for your outfit. Choosing a formal outfit that is authentic to your personal style and flatters your features is the first step.
Do some research on the venue and make sure you pay attention to the details like grooming and accessories. You don’t need to spend a fortune. At the end of the day, you can’t go wrong with a floor length satin black dress. Below are some ways you can save on your black tie outfit.
How to Save Money on Black-Tie Attire
If you’re not comfortable spending a lot of money on an item you may only wear once, then consider renting it! Yes, you can rent gorgeous formalwear from these black tie dress rentals below:
FAQ’s
1. What is the dress code for a black tie?
Ladies wear floor-length gowns and men wear tuxedos and a black bow tie.
2. What is the difference between black tie and white tie?
Black tie is formal such as a wedding or party.
White tie is stately, meaning royalty and stately events. It is the most formal dress code.
